Bones and Butts

Even though "Skinny Culture" has been around forever, I still get really really uncomfortable when I come across articles like this:

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,2104-2280785,00.html

Perhaps I wasn't in California long enough to really notice the insanity it describes -- but part of me thinks as a coping mechanism, I actually tuned it out. I've just recently come to this conclusion -- that I've been unconsciously tuning out observations that might torment my own body image. This poses an interesting new challenge for me:

I've always been an observer, fascinated by the minute details of life. I love picking up on the subtle nuances of a culture and a community... the particular way that someone speaks, carries herself, noticing the similarities and differences between people and places. So my adopted defense tactics against the media's unrealistic body ideals might blur my vision and keep me from truly observing first hand the insanity that prevails amongst women.

Looks like I'm going to have to gingerly step into this arena with my film -- despite the risks. Backtrack in my "progress", in order to move even farther forward then ever before. There are those who believe you have to hit rock bottom to really appreciate great success and fortune....

-- but back to the article. This is scary scary scary folks. Yes, America is getting fat. Yes, we need to start taking responsibility for our health and well-being. But I have to wonder: what sort of world will I one day be bringing children into? Where our headlines may be blasting Nicole Richie's skeleton-ness, but we're hard pressed to find anyone else BUT her on our mag covers. When a woman who's ribs are more prevalent than her hips appears everywhere in the media because she happens to be wearing great designer clothes and shows up at all the hot parties... What other ideal are our media-fed children to embrace? We offer no alternative role models to compete in any way with the Parises and Nicoles...

A better article:

http://www.gapersblock.com/airbags/archives/la_face_with_an_oakland_booty/

I am in a tiny position of power -- to bring new role models forth. Sexy, confident, ambitious women who will hopefully challenge the ridiculous standards. It's the little I can do and it's become an all-out mission for me. Because, as I said, I found it challenging enough finding my way through adolescence with the Beverly Hills 90210 gang as my gals to emulate (watch an early episode and witness at how healthy the gals looked before they dieted their bodies away over the seasons).... it pains me to think of the battles today's teens (and even our future children) face. They need our help.

Who's with me?